When you think of love, what pops into your mind? If you’re familiar with The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman, the following are probably coming to your mind: 1) Words of affirmation, 2) Physical touch, 3) Acts of service, 4) Giving gifts, and 5) Quality time. What do each of these love languages have in common? Each expression can involve some level of sacrifice. Read Paul’s words to the Ephesians:
Ephesians 5:1-2
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children…
The Greek word for “imitators” is Mimetes (mim-ay-tace’). From this Greek word, we derive the English word “mimic”. Since Jesus is God-in-flesh, his words, his thoughts, and his actions are the things we should mimic. To what things is Paul referring? The last verse of the previous chapter tell us! Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Jesus illustrates this truth in the parable of the Unmerciful Servant (Matthew 18:21-35).
The gist of the parable is this: A servant acquires a huge amount of debt and is unable to pay back his master. The servant begs for mercy and the master shows compassion by canceling his debt. Not long after his debt was canceled, the servant goes out and finds a fellow servant that owes him a small amount of money and demands immediate payment. The fellow servant can’t pay back the loan, so the servant who loaned him money throws him into prison. The master learns about the situation with his servants and confronts the unmerciful servant and throws him into prison to be tortured until he pays back everything he owes. Jesus wraps up the parable by saying, “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.”
The “debt” in the parable of the unmerciful servant is symbolic of “sin”. The master showed an incredible amount of love and mercy toward the servant through forgiving his debt, and the master expected the servant to imitate (or mimic) the same love and mercy toward his debtors. This can be painful because at times we desperately want the person who wronged us to pay for their sins. We might secretly wish bad things for those who hurt us. If we allow anger and bitterness to bend our heart out of shape, we can quickly become like the unmerciful servant. In the parable, the master dealt with the unmerciful servant harshly, “In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.”
…and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us…
As dearly loved children, God does not intend for us live a life of FEAR but rather a life of LOVE. If we try to mimic God because we fear him, then we are void of love. 1 John 4:16-18 says, “God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” This is one of the most profound passages in the New Testament. It reveals God’s character, our intertwining relationship to God, how we should live our lives, and how COMPLETE LOVE will cast out fear and give us confidence before the Father on the day of judgement.
Those who “live in love” will have a “love that is made complete”. How might we live in love? If we read on, the verse tells us that, “in this world we are like him [Jesus].” We are to be like Jesus in this world. He is our example, and we are to mimic him. Jesus has given us so many examples to follow, but one of my favorite examples is in John 13 when he washes his disciple’s feet before dinner. John 13:1 says, “…Having loved his own who were in the world, he now showed them the full extent of his love.” Jesus gets down on his knees, a very humble posture, and washes the dirtiest part of their body. Afterward, he tells them in John 13:14-15, “Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.” Jesus was demonstrating a pre-crucifixion sacrifice of self. Jesus Christ, our Lord, became the lowest and humble and a servant to his disciples. He sacrificed all honor and glory he deserved to illustrate the full extent of his love. Jesus finishes the evening by saying to his disciples in John 13:34-35, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
…as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
Jesus went on to physically sacrifice his body as atonement for our sin. No one can mimic this sacrifice because Jesus was without sin and, therefore, Jesus was the only one capable of pleasing God with a blood sacrifice for sin. In fact, God is no longer interested with BLOOD sacrifices for sin, but rather LIVING sacrifices that conform to the Father’s perfect love. Hebrews 13:15-16 says, “Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that confess his name. And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” This passage from Hebrews encompasses the essence of the Law of Christ. Jesus said in Matthew 22:37-39, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself.”
It is only THROUGH the love and mercy of Jesus that our sacrifice becomes pleasing to God.
Romans 12:1 – Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship.
Hebrews 13:15 – Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise…
1 Peter 2:5 – You also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.
1 John 4:9 – This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.
We are living stones. We are living sacrifices. We live through the love of Jesus Christ.